I see the side-chicks get all excited about my previous posts ... the aim is not to condone behaviour or existence but merely to state facts of the Game as played by men and their counterparts..most of all the folly of being unrealistic when confronted with the presence of a third party in a relationship. The aim is to have sisters be very pragmatic about this other women issue and not get all up on overdosing .. point in case 'Mshoza and Demi'. Now there is nothing as painful as a sister losing it because of a man and another woman... Surely no woman wants to have another woman's passing on her conscious. One would argue that the one who takes their own life is selfish, but isn't the man in question and his mistress(s) also selfish?, let's be serious some women mean it when they say till death do us apart.
My point is one shouldnt be too proud of corveting another's partner despite the fact that she was approached and all. I guess the question lies in what story they were told when approached, that I can buy!!! but with time one finds out that the man in question is attached then the moral fiber starts sparking current,....... if that doesnt happen to you Delilah and Jezebel have nothing on you. Having said that some brothers lay it out on the table and you make your choice, granted who wants to let a good man go we lament but by the sheer act of him cheating on his partner he made a commitment to.....eeeerrrrrrhhhhhh. Show me the good man in that skin!!!!!!!!
We all know the circumstances surrounding the infidelity of married women and men is complex according to their state of being in their relationships although it would be fair to say some are just certified Jezebels and all...... they wouldnt be faithful to their own selves even if their last breathe depended on it. There is also women who think relationships are a game and will go for anything and everything that belongs to everyone but themselves, the hunters of the prey called married or commited man..... we all know the perception that men want anything in a skirt (not entirely true) with the rise of the Koyo's Gabbana's and Somizi's you can't tap anything in a skirt by merit of a skirt..........Note I don't discriminate I aim only to be witty..........
Now I have no tolerance for itchy fanny women who can't seem to keep their panties knotted....... they have no apologies for their conduct of breaking homes and breaking hearts..... it is incorrect to refer to this guild of women as side-chicks, there should be a name from the hussy hell that befits their status and conduct. When we learn to separate this breed of women from the normal woman seeking love maybe then..........
In the meantime............................
The one big thing is men get bored (especially sexually) they don't stop loving their partners they get BORED........ Now these hyenas know and and capitilise of the seduction element and sexual excitement. Now sisters the ring did not come with a clause insisting you should act like a prude in the privacy of your sleeping quarters .. do that you'll be left holding feathers ...... Yes the preassure of work, kids and being a wife is taxing, but gawd darnit sex is also a stress reliever according to the learned researchers..... What I'm saying is get your Groove on.... be the girl he met and the wife / wives he loves most of all be the package you were unless of course you came as a pregnant package.... then I have no words.
I rant and rave on all sides of the fence so bear with me .............
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